Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Ugh! it's Tuesday

It's Tuesday and I'm not a big fan! This Tuesday in particular is worse than usual since it follows a holiday. But typically, even when it's a normal week, I don't like them. They tend to get overlooked by most since everyone tends to hate Monday's, but in my opinion, they are really just as bad as Monday. We still have most of the week left and all the stuff that didn't get done on Monday carries over to Tues. so it's really a second Monday!

Anyway, still no message from Mark! Very frustrating to say the least but, I received a new communication request today from John. I saw his profile over the weekend and secretly hoped he would initiate communication and low and behold he did! I have decided I am not going to initiate conversation first with any of the matches. I feel like as men they should pursue me It is a little bit slower going but feels good when you know they really wanted to contact you! So, I have answered the first round of questions. Now I have sent him his questions and we shall see where this goes!

One of my exes called me last night. I'm telling you... they just don't go away. This one in particular is a hanger oner. I think I am just too nice! This one got his ex pregnant while he was supposedly still in love with me. That same week that their little rendezvous occurred, he was trying to get me to see him! He says he was just so upset that I wouldn't see him that he just slept with her, I don't know I guess for revenge?? Baffling to me. I have a problem with always trying to be the bigger person. So instead of flipping out and going off on him like I should have, I have just been somewhat supportive, but I told him that is definitely the end of us! In his true fashion, he has been trying incessantly to see and spend time with me! I mean, hello!! you are having a baby with another woman!!! Then when I explain this for the 2000th time he acts offended. As if I'm the unreasonable one. See! This is exactly why I am trying to weed them out. They are all messed up in the head. Ok, gonna go to work!

2 comments:

  1. hehe....oh this is going to be good.....let me know how the match thing goes!

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  2. In my world - I call this cake eating.

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